Remember how I shared that I was memorizing Hebrews 12:1-2…I know it’s been two weeks…what happened? Well, I was challenged in my faith in a few areas. Let me share a post I posted in a mother’s prayer group last week to just exemplify what was happening in my heart over these past two weeks:
“I’m going to be very vulnerable and honest right now…please pray for me. There’s an anger in my heart that I need to be healed of. I’ve been finding myself getting offended easy by a lot of different things and I’ve been harboring it somewhat. Personally, I’m exhausted and I don’t know how to rest nor how to get rest. Also, I think the anger and offense is only unveiling a deeper issue of healing. I’ve been finding myself discontent, depressed at moments and lacking in joy. I just feel to call on you to pray because it’s really hard right now. Thanks, my friends.”
Well, I believe the Lord answered my friends’ prayers by speaking an illustration to me, that came out of my meditating on the part of Hebrews 12:1 that says to lay aside every weight and the sin that so easily ensnares us…As I meditated on this thought, I was struck by the following illustration:
Picture someone running a race. As the runner is running, there are opponents and those on sidelines throwing rocks at the runner. These rocks are meant to hinder the runner in the race. And,on these rocks are written the comments that are spoken as they are thrown (i.e. “You can’t run.” “Look, at you, do you think you will even make it?” “Whose cheering for you? You’re all alone.” “Look at those weak legs. They’ll take you only so far. Give up!” , etc.)
Imagine now you are the runner. You begin to pick these “rocks” up and begin holding them and try to keep running. Even you feel you’ve got the upper hand as you catch a couple of the “rocks” in your hand. But, you still carry these “rocks” as you continue running in this race. Eventually these “rocks” begin overwhelming you as you hold them. You sense the weight of them, and as you look on them, they consume your thoughts as they are right there before you. They start to get so heavy that you begin getting upset, accusing these “rocks” of ruining your race.
As this anger & accusation mounts in your heart & thoughts towards these “rocks”, someone walks by and mistakenly misses the garbage can when they were throwing out a piece of trash. It ended up rolling out in your way as you are running your race. Immediately, you feel this trash in your way was intentional and you spat back in anger & throw accusations at the poor one who mistakenly missed the trash can. You are so busy getting caught up in the “hurts” you are carrying & how its’ affecting your race, you don’t recognize the reality of the situation – that someone simply made a mistake when throwing out trash.
Eventually, someone on the sideline offers you a backpack. They say, “Here, this is to help you carry all that stuff you are holding. Maybe it’ll help.” As you stop, this person helps you put the “rocks” a.k.a. “hurts” into the backpack. This person reads some of the rocks you are carrying and begins to comment, “Oh my. So & so said that. They did that? Wow. Well, I heard she has a gossip problem. Did you see how she said that the other day?” You see? Somehow this person appeared helpful, but all they did was add to your burden, not knowing that while they “helped” to pack your bag, they only put more “rocks” in that were in her own hand. So, now the weights you are carrying only got heavier.
But, you keep running. As you are running, you catch a glimpse of someone running alongside of you on the track, saying things but you can’t really hear well as you start getting more frustrated with the backpack. The straps aren’t tight enough, so you begin fiddling with the straps as you run. Eventually, the straps start getting twisted & wrapped around your waist & arm. You try to fix it & move around while doing so. You don’t realize you’ve changed direction in the course of your race. And, at the same time, you bump into others running the race. They end up throwing their “rocks” (hurts) at you for disturbing their race. So, now, you’ve taken their “rocks” also and add to your pack while trying to adjust your backpack just right to hold all your “rocks” a.k.a. hurts.
There you are again, spouting anger & accusation at everyone who throws these rocks at you, that they are ruining your walk with God.
“Wait! Where is God?,” you think to yourself.
“Wait! What happened to that Person who was running by my side & was saying something to me that I couldn’t hear?,” your thoughts continue.
As you realize you are off course, you see others running another race. They don’t have packs & you observe “rocks” also being thrown at them. But, they either dodge them or take them, but toss aside carefully being mindful of who is around them. You see one of the runners aim for the trash can, misses and hits someone else. You see their regret, but before they can apologize, the other runner throws all kinds of rocks out of anger. Immediately, you remember that one that threw trash at you. You think to yourself, “Were they missing the trash can like this person? And, what did I do? I threw rocks back at them.”
As you watch the same runners, you see someone running next to them. He is running & shouting encouragements to the runners. You see these words of encouragement are giving the runners endurance to keep running strong and to stay on course. When someone throws a “rock” at them, you hear this “Coach” speaking words like, “forgiveness, lay it down,” etc. The runners listen & obey to continue to have endurance to keep running strong.
As you observe, you look around for that One who was running near you when you were on course. You turn around to see Him there waiting with arms extended, encouraging you to get back on course.
As you make a decision to turn towards Him, you are so overwhelmed by your “weights” on your back that you fall. You cower & fret, fearing to look up, where you think you may find Him looking over you, shaking His head at you for being such a failure. (Isn’t that what one of the rocks said anyway?)
You look up to see Him bending next to you, trying to undo your straps that got you entangled. At first you snap at Him & hit Him – “What are you doing? making it tighter, pointing out what a mess I am?” He shakes his head & waits for the invitation to continue to help.
Eventually, you realize He’s just trying to help you. You stretch out a hand and ask for help. “What should I do?” His answer, “Stay still & keep your eyes on Me & hear My words.” So, now, you are in a position of yielding to His freeing hand & becoming an ear to His words as He takes off the “weights” of “hurts” you’ve been holding onto.
As He frees you, He guides you back on course. You look ahead at the race and explain how you feel like such a failure &you have lost so much time getting caught up in the “rocks” & “weights” in the pack. As you say that, a rock comes your way because you got in their way. You go to react, but your Coach puts His hand out & takes the force of another rock for you and turns to say, “Forgive & let go. Don’t carry these rocks.” Then, He starts speaking words like, “I have a hope & future for you. My thoughts are good towards you. Move forward, etc.”
You realize, as you begin to get back on course that He is running this race of life with you. All the while, you notice “rocks” being thrown at Him, but they don’t affect Him or hinder Him. You begin to realize that if you focus on Him & His Words, what He is saying you will begin to build greater endurance to run this race well.
Hebrews 12:1-2
1 Therefore we also, since we are surrounded by so great a cloud of witnesses, let us lay aside every weight, and the sin which so easily ensnares us, and let us run with endurance the race that is set before us, 2 looking unto Jesus, the author and finisher of our faith, who for the joy that was set before Him endured the cross, despising the shame, and has sat down at the right hand of the throne of God.
So, how did or does this apply to what I was going through last week? Well, I saw that I was taking those rocks, whether thrown intentionally or not, and I was holding them. I saw that I took them to just be loaded into the pack I was already carrying. I knew there were hurts God was already healing, but when I saw this illustration, it just caused me to see a bit more clearly how I can handle my present day hurts.
When you study the Greek word for “weights” that is used in Hebrews 12, it actually means a mass (as bending or bulging by the load). It also connotes a hindrance. When hurts are not dealt with maturely and rightly, they can be hindrances to what we are called to in this life. They can also serve as hindrances to relationships we have with others. But, we so often can throw back these hurts in the wrong directions or right back at the ones that threw them. But, what does that accomplish? We are then just found being a hindrance to anothers’ race and slowing ourselves down in process. In effect, you may feel there’s healing, but all that’s happening is more wounding.
“I am free to run, I free to dance, I am free to live for You.” This is a song I first heard in children’s church. May this be my testimony! And, being I heard it in children’s class, it reminds me once again to come humbly before Jesus as a child. He used a child as His example of how to come to Him in simple, childlike trust. I want to be free to run & dance & live this life for Jesus!
One last thought (I feel this is my common closing line :))…not only did Jesus help expose these “weights” I was carrying and the more I was taking on, but, in His simple way, He showed me how I need to get back to the simplicity of loving Him again. Was I seeking Him already? Yes! But, there was something starting to distract me from Him in my seeking! You see, at the time, I was praying about a lot of stresses in my life. And, they need to be prayed for. But, I felt Him showing me that my eyes were getting set there on the stresses, that I was starting to miss Him as my BEST COACH, my BEST FRIEND, pouring His love & encouragement over me. Once again, my eyes were being set on the Author & the Finisher of my faith!
My friends, fellow mothers, and more – I believe as you yield those “hurts” that others have thrown at you…these can be by our own children, mistakenly by our husbands or intentionally by those who wanted to hurt, we need to not carry them any longer. Let us lay aside those weights that could lead to such sin that it ensnares us before we even know it. Let us not be found as that one who provided the backpack…a person prone to gossip & slander. But, let us see our GREAT COACH ready to take those hurts for us. Let us hear His words to cause us to move forward in faith to finish our race, that will not lead us off course. Friends, let us recognize the One who has already ran this race of life and hear Him coach us forward towards the finishing line! Open your hearts & fix your vision to see Him ready to be your Coach for this race called life.